Comments | jaune_chat: ...So I should just stay home all the time now?

jaune_chat

...So I should just stay home all the time now?

May 15, 2013 11:09

Ooooo.... kay.

So... something just happened that was not good. I'd like to talk about it.

( Talking about original fiction writer's club and hubby's strange reaction. )

rant, real life

Comments 5

hiddencait May 17 2013, 01:09:22 UTC

*huggles huggles huggles* Gahhhhhhhhh sorry hon. That is never a happy Conversation to have. I hope it ends up going better.

jaune_chat May 17 2013, 01:47:52 UTC

*sighs* I just ETA a section on how that conversation went. Not as well as I'd hoped. Not at all. But thanks so much for the huggles!

hiddencait May 18 2013, 02:00:33 UTC

Oh yick. Yeah that wasn't a great way for that to go. Gah I'm sorry hon.

game_byrd May 17 2013, 12:36:57 UTC

Unless they've reinstituted slavery while I wasn't looking, he's not entitled to your time, your attention, or your love, no matter how far he moved. That you have enjoyed sharing those with him in the past does not allow him to appropriate them in future. It's not a thing he owns; it's a thing you happen to share with him when you are moved to do so. Even if he gives you a kidney and saves your life, he can hope for gratitude, not the right to run your life ( ... )

boudecia7 May 19 2013, 06:11:44 UTC

You seem to have a pretty clear-headed view of the incident, including your feelings about it and your understanding of the Mr. Chat's mitigating factors, both of which I can really sympathize with since I've been married awhile myself. It can be really tough to sort out the heart of different arguments, particularly about how each person spends their time, because there really are just so many factors beyond what's immediately apparent ( ... )