weirdest friendship I've ever had
More than halfway through the performances of the musical I'm in right now, so I've barely been home let alone online. But this needs to be recorded before it changes any more dramatically
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Hmm. My two cents? I think perhaps a clarifying talk with him is in order. I totally understand you not liking the not knowing. It would be totally appropriate for you to say, "Hey, this is all exciting and that, but I just wanted to confirm what your expectations are, so no one gets hurt."
If he's implied that your different personalities make pursuing a relationship difficult, and all this stuff has been happening regardless, I think a bit of a talk is def. in order. Mixed signals are very confusing and frustrating.
What show is it, btw?
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That escalated after not escalating...
Again, like the other commenter said- if you're in a state where you feel that you need things clarified again just tell him, though you had a little rejection the first time it seems as if you guys got through it okay (before the alcohol moved things up again).
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I can't really you give advice because I'm currently in my first ever relationship...however, I can't help but feel that you will get hurt from this. The reason I feel this way is because he has already bluntly said a relationship is not going to happen and that he isn't attracted to you.
This is obviously confusing when he actively seeks you out to make out and hinting at having sex with you....however, I feel that hormones are to blame for this.. Afterall, you mentioned several entries back that even his sister know of his ways (the fact that he sleeps with quite a few females).....so while it may feel so exciting to have those little sessions, I want you to seriously reconsider sleeping with this guy.
Just my thoughts honey...it is ultimately your decision afterall =)
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