Is there no right answer?

[itsacz]

Another slightly ranting post, just because.

I don't understand some people. From what I've heard and from my interpretations, what I do always seems to be wrong. If I don't go out with someone, I'm thought of as not giving the person enough attention. If I do go out with the person, then I'm ASSumed to be doing it because someone else told me to

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[nyankoframe]

I agree that it's ridiculous, especially on the part of the person who's making all these claims. ^^;;

[nakaemi]

It's human for people to never be satisfied. It's like the problem I'm recently having. My friend wants me to do her homework for her. I'm helping her, but then I'm afraid that after I help her, I'll be taken for granted and then she will want to use me all the time like she did with my siblings. Then, if all of a sudden I were to say 'no', the times I did help her will be completely forgotten and I will suddenly be the evil ogre that said 'no' to her.

I'm quite experienced in being accused of being wrong all the time. You know the story. ^^;; But it's true that it is something that affects deeply and hurts, especially when you know in your heart that you tried your best and you simply weren't able to live to that person's expectations. :(