"if it matters to you, it should be important to the people who care about you."
Does it really? Do friends always have to agree on things?
You can be mindful of someones wishes without having to really care that much about it, and sometimes it doesn't even matter if you're not mindful of it... like I don't drink and I'm allergic to sugar but everyone I know still gives me alcohol or sugary things but sometimes you just have to go oh well my dietry concerns are of no importance to them.
I think you have to investigate more on what it is before you can make a sweeping comment that everything that is important to someone should be important to their friends. Otherwise you're just going to spend your entire life living for other peoples important things instead of your own.
i happen to know what she's talking about and yes, i do think it's important, and no, i do not think it's trivial. do you even know what she's talking about? i don't think you do. so maybe instead of advising me to investigate things you should think about doing that yourself before placing judgement
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unfortunately, i'm usually alone in my views.
*hugs* i hope you had a great day. we'll have to be french soon :D
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Does it really? Do friends always have to agree on things?
You can be mindful of someones wishes without having to really care that much about it, and sometimes it doesn't even matter if you're not mindful of it... like I don't drink and I'm allergic to sugar but everyone I know still gives me alcohol or sugary things but sometimes you just have to go oh well my dietry concerns are of no importance to them.
I think you have to investigate more on what it is before you can make a sweeping comment that everything that is important to someone should be important to their friends. Otherwise you're just going to spend your entire life living for other peoples important things instead of your own.
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