last week grandmother passed away - the one in cambodia - the one i met last year for the first time ever. kinda knew it was the last time i was going to see her. but still -- death is a horrible thing. . . weirdly enough, cause i've planned my funeral in grade school when other little girls were planning their 'wedding' . . . yeah i have my
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Sorry you lost your grandmother. She'll be back though. The Chinese believe in reincarnation, to the best of my recollection...
It's been a while since we've talked. Word has it you left town. Where did you go?
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i didn't really leave town, i just went up back to live with my parents. . . i'll send you an email instead. . . to your igrindall one. . .
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i have your theories accn. . . . um. . .
you email me at my nothingL accn
but no . didn't leave town town. went back to live with my parents to save up for the purchasing of something or other - to make myself 'grow up'
everyone's getting married so i might as well buy something to put gypsy and i in.
yeah. . . shalom
wikipiedia cannot tell me everything about my religion -- first of all i have to find out what specific branch of buddhism i'm apart of. . .
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Like you I think I have thought about and planned my funeral more times than my wedding (in fact, I have rarely thought about the latter). I told someone once (and the looked at me strangely) that the most thoughtful gift one can give a person is their own funeral plot.
I have always hated wedding...mostly because I sense stress more than that idealized "happiness" that everyone keeps raving about. I still have to see it. I prefer funerals simply because I know that the emotions expressed at such an even is almost always sincere...probably the most sincere expression of emotion. I never cry at funerals...I don't know why.
After all, I think that we are born only for the reason of preparing not how we live, but how we die...
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hugs.
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