This thing is friends only from now on.

[iluvacslater]

Yesterday was a really bad day

Comments

[idiosincratik]

how can someone put a time constraint on the grieving process? i don't understand.

[first_lobster]

I know I haven't said anything thus far- I guess because I don't know you well, we just became lj friends a couple of weeks ago and everything I want to say sounds trite and lame.
But, I don't think it will be a solid 4 years of this. It's blindingly difficult to deal with now, but as time progresses you'll slowly be able to manage these feelings better.

[georgette_b]

Sorry, but that four years thing is BS. Has your doctor experienced a similar loss? Then tell her/him to shut up. Textbooks don't apply to grief

[__loismustdie]

ashley dear, i'm so terribly sorry. i know there's not really much i can say that no one else has. seriously knowing what has been going on with your life for the last year or so is amazing, and it's so crazy what has happened. i believe in you and josh. and i know you'll get through this. you were made to be a mother, you deserve to be a mother. when you and josh are ready again i know you'll be the best parents a child could ask for. but i just want you to know that i'm thinking of you guys, and i hope that you two can take care of eachother. <3

[amandapplejuice]

Ever since I found out what happened I have wanted to say something to you, but everytime I tried to type something it just didn't read like what I wanted to say, especially since we don't know eachother very well.

I guess what I am trying to say is that I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep you and Josh in my prayers. It really kills me when bad things happen to good people and just from the couple times I have been around you I can tell you are one of the best.

I hope the good days become more frequent.
<3Amanda