Aww..Christen. There's no easy way to tell Josh. If you feel this way though you have to tell him. The longer you keep it from him, the worse it will be. Maybe you two don't have to break up, but just take a short break from each other. Sometimes if you lose something, you realize how much it really meant to you. And don't listen to what other people say. They aren't you and they don't know this guy like you do. Just follow your heart and you'll be fine in the end.
Not getting excited to see your boyfriend is usually an after effect of hanging out with him too much. Making plans with other people is healthy, I'd say. Humans are social creatures, and hanging out with just one person can get very tiring/boring. As for having feelings for someone else, ack, that's tough. I've been in that position before. What I did was meditate on how it would make me feel if I broke up with the guy I was with to be with the other guy. I did that for a week! Basically, I was asking myself what course of action I should take to make me the most happy.
Whatever happens, you're going to grow from the experience. That's all life is, really: one big learning experience. +offers a hug+
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As for having feelings for someone else, ack, that's tough. I've been in that position before. What I did was meditate on how it would make me feel if I broke up with the guy I was with to be with the other guy. I did that for a week! Basically, I was asking myself what course of action I should take to make me the most happy.
Whatever happens, you're going to grow from the experience. That's all life is, really: one big learning experience. +offers a hug+
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