Comments | icedblaze: revising. But need to vent in secret

icedblaze

revising. But need to vent in secret

Apr 01, 2006 22:22

Okay. I know I said that I would give up many things for lent (Anisha) like McCoys Claire!! or chocolate - which I did.. for all of 2 hours.. but I think the one thing I really should have given up should have been men ( Read more... )

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grandmasam April 2 2006, 10:09:51 UTC

hey jem - i know we don't know each other that well - but i understand your utter loathing for being lied too - epsically by some one you thought would never lie to you.

it's even worse when you give them the opportunity to be truthful and they still lie. i know it sounds a bit rambly but basically a guy (of course)who told me he could tell me anyhting lied to me - and since then his mate told me he lied yet the guy himslef still refuses to admit the truth. i can't be bothered to fall out with him over it but it just annoys me soooo much that he couldn't just be truthful.

argh. icedblaze April 2 2006, 10:19:39 UTC

Sam -
Thanks for that. See - This has taught me one of several things:
1. I am still a weirdo magnet (can anyone else explain why I have a stalker, a long distant ex who loves me, and a stpuid boy who lies to me, all at the same time?)
2. Men (with some obv. exceptions) suck.
3. trust is a pain in the ass - cos if they really cared enough, then they wouldn't lie to begin with right?
I'm sorry he lied to you girlie - does he know that you know the truth?
See - the problem here is that This was a lie about the very first tihng he said to me. If the first thing was a lie, so must be everything that proeeds it. Clare and I are here in the Clinical sciences lib. (on wireless :D ) an she agrees. I think (I think I think too much)that it really screws over a relationship/friendship beofre it even begins. But there you go.
Back to you tho... if he doesn't know that you know he's lied.. what do you do?

Re: argh. grandmasam April 2 2006, 10:26:49 UTC

i'm with you guys - if the first thing he told you is a lie then its hard to beleive that anyhting that followed was true.

my guy doesn't know that i know for two reasons
1. i can't be bothered to drag up the past becasue we barley get along as it is - and its easier if we get along as we share a few mutual freinds.

2. because it was one of his good mates that told me, then if he knows i know he will also know who told me and i don't want to cause a fallout between the two of them, i'm already coming between them as it is.

it just frustrates me 'cos i suspected he had lied to me (it was about why we broke up)but he assured me that i was just being paranoid - he made me doubt myself when i was right!