I shouldnt even complain. My best friend (well, I guess so) gets infected by my hyperness easily. But not all the time of course. Depends on the band/people. But with my Bloody Valentine, for example, if I listen to them and it sounds absolutely gorgeous and stunning again then Ijust start pacing around my room or something because I cant venture it, haha. But then there's obsessing over bands and there's obsessing over music, not quite the same, although they often come together...
Thats good to hear. Its just that I think "oh, if he knew me, he wouldnt like me" ... which is a bit stupid, I know, because it'd mean noone in real life would like me, which I know isnt true, but still.
Oh shit, I'm really hoping you don't. I wish I could offer you some kind of comfort, I know how upsetting/nervewrecking can be (not cancer, though). Do you know when you'll know more?
Shit, I meant to leave you a comment when you first posted it, but apparently I forgot... I don't think falling for someone online is different from getting to know the person IRL. Actually, you often learn even more about the person because communication is easier like this. (Not talking about those people who are just fake on the net here, of course.) You feelings might change though when/if you really meet, but if for the worse or the better, or if they'll change at all - who knows?
ha, man, that happens way to often to myself. worse even is writing one and then the computer breaks down or something like that...
yeah, that's what I thought, too. If I had met him in real life, he'd just be this self confident self he always puts on when he meets people. The interesting thing is rather if he's kind of like this when/if we meet still. Im not really concerned so much whether I'd like him the same... because if I wouldnt then there'd be no real problem. I just worry that he'd stop liking me. It's a miracle enough for me that he likes me like that, because he knows shit loads about me... rambling. sorry.
He is. It sounds really dumb but "he s a really good listener". Plus you can go from rambling over how good or weird bob dylan or jimmy page look (I started talking to him because he said "jimmy page is god! and so good -looking" somewhere...) to talking about philosophy and books to private. But i hate taking things too seriously, if you know what I mean :/
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I shouldnt even complain. My best friend (well, I guess so) gets infected by my hyperness easily. But not all the time of course. Depends on the band/people. But with my Bloody Valentine, for example, if I listen to them and it sounds absolutely gorgeous and stunning again then Ijust start pacing around my room or something because I cant venture it, haha. But then there's obsessing over bands and there's obsessing over music, not quite the same, although they often come together...
Thats good to hear. Its just that I think "oh, if he knew me, he wouldnt like me" ... which is a bit stupid, I know, because it'd mean noone in real life would like me, which I know isnt true, but still.
you dont rant at all. I do ^^
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I don't think falling for someone online is different from getting to know the person IRL. Actually, you often learn even more about the person because communication is easier like this. (Not talking about those people who are just fake on the net here, of course.)
You feelings might change though when/if you really meet, but if for the worse or the better, or if they'll change at all - who knows?
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yeah, that's what I thought, too. If I had met him in real life, he'd just be this self confident self he always puts on when he meets people. The interesting thing is rather if he's kind of like this when/if we meet still. Im not really concerned so much whether I'd like him the same... because if I wouldnt then there'd be no real problem. I just worry that he'd stop liking me. It's a miracle enough for me that he likes me like that, because he knows shit loads about me... rambling. sorry.
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....But he's really into soccer.
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