I've been getting questions about my emotional availability from people. More questions about where I am in terms of relationship availability. The short answer is that I'm not looking for anything serious right now.
The longer, more self-indulgent answer is that I don't know. I'm figuring things out as I go, trying not to give more than I have to
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(although it is tempting to try to see if I could get you up on a chair, but that's just another scene ;-)
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I think it's mostly about not wanting to commit myself to something that will end up being another bad fit and not trusting my judgment right now.
M (my first marriage) was a relationship I began right after breaking up with my first boyfriend and being kicked out of my parent's house. D (the current partnership) was a relationship I began right after filing for divorce from Mark. Both lasted 5 years - 3 years of co-habitation and 2 years of marriage with M; 3 years of dating and 2 years of marriage with D. I need to break the cycle!
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Proud of you for seeing this for yourself, too.
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