I finally changed my LiveJournal user name from "brainrape" to the much more appropriate, "hotassmess".

I went to visit Asher and it was beautiful. We spent our days eating and napping and sexing, kissing faces and watching TV online. We went for walks through the parks in Smalltown, OH, and held hands--his long and thin and brown, like chocolate syrup; mine short and pudgy and tan, like chocolate milk ( Read more... )

The 9th Annual Philadelphia Trans-Health Conference just wrapped up. I had been feeling a great deal of guilt about quitting the committee sometime back, for the sake of the Equality Ride. Everything seemed to go well though, at least from an attendee's perspective.

I attended a couple of partners/significant others workshops and was pretty ( Read more... )

Another piece of me ( Read more... )

I'm really tired. I've been writing in a real live notebook ( Read more... )

If you can, do. Thank you.

https://www.soulforce.org/jess_kalup

Oh hai there. This is a public post.

Have at me.

Thursday I have a consultation appointment at a really rad tattoo shop here in Philly. I'm laying out the ground work to get my first big kid tattoo, and possibly visiting the adjacent piercing parlor to find out about stretching my ears ( Read more... )

I have a new job. I work in a hotel again, another Marriott.

I really, really, really like it. And it's really, really, really easy.

No more social life though.

Later this week, I turn 25. How'd that happen?