Per this meme here, I've been noticing for several days as it's been coming up on my flist that I appear to be the only one who's answered thus far who apparently wears a full face of makeup on a daily (well, semi-daily; I rarely wear any makeup except perhaps a little concealer for blemishes on Saturday) basis. It's not that I don't like my looks
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I've never thought of myself as wearing a lot of makeup but I've had too many of those "catch yourself by surprise in a mirror and be horrified" moments to want to go out without it. It just seems part of my routine now, like brushing my teeth in the morning.
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I once came home from having entirely too much fun at the Marshall Field makeup counter (bagses and bagses of free samples!), and one of my guy friends called me while I was still sitting at the coffee table being gleeful. Being the patient sort, he let me glee at him for a few minutes, and was pretty amused.
When I asked why (beyond the amusement that he usually finds in watching and/or listening to me bounce), he commented that his recently ex-girlfriend had held the whole makeup thing pretty much in disdain -- didn't wear it, didn't have much respect for women who did. And I was like, "But... but... toys! Girlie stuff to make me feel happy and pretty!" (I think I was slightly more coherent than that, but that was the gist.)
< shrug > I can understand not wanting the hassle of fussing with your face every ( ... )
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Yeah, I'm firmly on the "girlie stuff to make me feel happy and pretty" train, too. When I see something new on the market makeup-wise, I just have to try it. Mineral powder? Great! New kind of mascara wand? Get me one!
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I've never thought of it that way. Wearing makeup makes me feel even MORE insecure than I usually am about my looks. If I had more confidence in my appearance I think I'd feel less like a clown when I put it on.
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I used to have friends who were very insecure about their looks and literally obsessed with makeup etc. but I find most of that stuff belongs in high school... for most people I know, it's just a daily part of taking care of themselves. I guess sometimes those high school stereotypes get carried over and misapplied, but it's silly.
However, it's interesting, I've also seen the stereotype that women who don't wear makeup- especially to work- are drab, severe, and possibly lesbians. In fact, one of my bosses said something to that effect. A female. And, when I started wearing makeup at work, my supervisor commented that it was nice to see me finally "joining the world." I have circles around my eyes and uneven skin tone, so makeup does make a difference.
It's frustrating, one of those "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situations women face in almost every facet of life.
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