Bashing Myself, but Ending on a Light Note :-)

[hgolightly88]

I'm not sleeping. It's almost 5:00 am, and I'm awake. I will try to fall asleep after this. Bleh.

I've been making a lot of negative comments towards myself lately. There are so many physical and emotional traits I keep nit-picking at. It's addicting to find faults. I dislike so many things, I can't help myself sometimes! :-P

What I need to do, is

Comments

[rockyangel]

We are always the hardest on ourselves and bashing what we think is wrong with us. Even if it is slowly I am sure you will come around. Because you are an amazing person and soon you will begin to think like that. It took me forever not to bash myself so much and be super selfconscious, but I got over it mostly, I do have my moments sometimes though.

[hgolightly88]

Yeah, being hard on ourselves is apart of life, for sure. I'm sure I'll come around too ... soooon enough :-P

Thank you for the comment. I appreciate it :-) :hugs:

[rockyangel]

Your welcome pretty lady, and I love that icon from Lost In Translation, that's like my guilty pleasure movie

[shinjoelfboy]

What I realized that helped me stop bashing myself was that most of the time I was creating things for people to view me badly. When I was picked on, it wasn't because they were coming up with bad things to say about me. They were just repeating what I had already said about myself.

Ultimately, I stopped seeing these bad things about myself. And realized that because I had stopped, they did not exist anymore.

[shinjoelfboy]

At any rate, I sympathize with your situation.

I know it can be hard to knock yourself out of being negative. Just remind yourself that all I ever hear from people is that you are an amazing person. They dont get why you see yourself the way you do.