oh, I hate that anxiety. I get it every time I come home from any sort of social thing. I'll start out feeling good about my interactions, and then a few hours later I'll be completely overwhelmed by depression because I've been going over and over all the things that were said and I'm so awkward. :cringe:
We are truly our own worst critics, don't ask me how I know. You have impressed me with your communication skills and how well you think something through I realize I am not that interviewer but I'll bet she was a bit impressed. You said it your self, she had that armor, but there was a person under that armor. Believe in yourself. If not this one, the next one will be a winner, you'll see.
Good for you for even doing the interview. I would listen to Vera, because she is right, and you probably impressed her. I know that anxiety too, when you replay an entire interaction and judge yourself so harshly that you cringe in retrospect. Hang in there, fella.
I have been on so few interviews, and I know it the process has changed immensely since I last interviewed five years ago. Definitely not a comfort zone! Good luck to you!
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This is a little different. I hope you get it!
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