Life is too short

[hanny2luv]

Early this morning, i've got news that my cousin died in an accident. He was so young, and he have so much ahead of him. He was just 10 days older than me, for goodness sake. And it got me thinking that no matter how old we are, when it come to death it just doesn't matter what your age are

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[chika1611]

Nooo....I don't think you're a cold-hearted person. Me too, 5 years ago my cousin died when he's 17 years old. I'm stil 12 or 13 years old back then. I felt so sad and I really want to cry, because I've just lost my dear cousin, he is my dear cousin since I was little. But I couldn't cry, although my heart felt really broke back then. I think you couldn't express it because it's just too much for you to take, like me. I feel sorry for your cousin...

[resolute_reader]

To tell the truth, I think your reaction is perfectly natural. Hardly anyone just breaks down immediately and cries their eyes out. It's just a protective barrier. This is someone you've known your whole life, someone so close to you in age, it's not cold hearted to take that to heart.

You'll get through this dear, maybe even stronger than before. Just don't stop yourself if you need to cry, it's oddly therapeutic.

Lots of love and care <3 Live without regrets for him and mourn as necessary. You're as human and warm blooded as anyone can be, as long as you have a pulse remember that. I'm sorry for your loss.

[shobe12]

its just normal to react like that now..

same thing happend to me before i didn't cry at first but after i understand what really happen..

i started to cry my heart out,..

im sorry for what happen to cousin..

[raixas]

sorry 4 ur cousin nee-chan...
u'll get through this...
*hugs neechan*

[haruhi_hikaru]

*hugs you tightly*
i lost my 21 years old cousin few months ago,i know how it feels.
ppl take the news differently,dear.you're not cold hearted just because you don't cry for his loss.
just pray for him so that his soul will rest in peace.

take care of yourself,k? =) *hugs*