Let me first preface everything I say with this. The following post and the next one are preceded by a few facts that i need to get straight
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hm...thought that came to me while I was reading that...I think that since things have been brought to your attention because of things that happened...you're now worrying too much about other people and not enough about yourself. if people aren't willing to give time to understand you, the way you think, why you feel the way you do, etc., then don't give time to try and make them...
I would say that most people are not in it for the recognition. I do things because I feel they are the right and just things to do. I never look over my shoulder to see who my be watching, or to make sure that I am noticed. At least I try not to.
And yes, you do have good actions. More than you give yourself credit for. And your good actions bring forth other positive reactions that you will never know about. I never had doubts about your sincerity. I maybe didn't always agree with its direction and I never withheld that from you. It is difficult to look in the mirror to recognize your own good. Look around you not at you. Maybe you don't know what the good looks like and you'll miss it altogether -- who knows.
And yes, it is better to change your own flat note then to expect the entire orchestra to change to you. We know people like that. Not cool. Have a good break. Rest. Relax. Don't think too much. And maybe, only if you feel like it, take down a wall. Just one -- lets not get crazy.
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anonymous
November 24 2006, 06:32:48 UTC
you take on other peoples trust and burdens maybe not meaning to and then when you get tired of toting it around you lay it down. so the only thing i say is if you take on burdens then you cannot let people down so dont get more involved than you are willing to carry that persons hopes and dreams around in your pocket.
Not sure who the first post was... but as someone who has spent 3 years trying to understand, tolerate, bend to, configure around every piece of you that you will let me know
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And yes, you do have good actions. More than you give yourself credit for. And your good actions bring forth other positive reactions that you will never know about. I never had doubts about your sincerity. I maybe didn't always agree with its direction and I never withheld that from you. It is difficult to look in the mirror to recognize your own good. Look around you not at you. Maybe you don't know what the good looks like and you'll miss it altogether -- who knows.
And yes, it is better to change your own flat note then to expect the entire orchestra to change to you. We know people like that. Not cool. Have a good break. Rest. Relax. Don't think too much. And maybe, only if you feel like it, take down a wall. Just one -- lets not get crazy.
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