'The exercise emphasized using “I messages,” as opposed to those that begin with “you” and, therefore, can put their targets on the defensive [...] “Just make sure they’re sticking to the formula,” Hurdle-Price advised. “I often get students who say, ‘I feel that you are stupid.’ ”'
I'll wager that depends greatly on how you phrase the question. If you ask them to rate their physical appearance, then they'll most likely be very critical of themselves. Ask them to rate their intellectual ability and they'll boast they're in the top bracket every time.
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Priceless!
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*I'm a terrible therapist. :-D
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