i like boring sex too. i never thought about why i often have every thought and feeling pouring out on my face before. i like your explanation . i want to borrow it for a week and see if it fits for me too
i have had this open for two days meaning to make a comment, but i haven't yet! so now i will.
first of all, this is kind of selfish, but it's always a relief to me when i find out real working artists end up leaving things to the last minute, as it helps me to both find solace in happy last-minute accidents & reassures that my own work habits aren't just 'naive' or something.
i'm also not sure if i've ever been in a relationship long enough, or enough quantitatively, to know exactly how i actually like sex. i know what things work for me conceptually & autonomously, but they are highly dependent upon the autonomy. who knows!
First. Thank you for leaving my page open. I've done that on occasion, left the page there on the screen as a reminder to read, comment on, watch, or research something
( ... )
i think the one *key* thing i've 'learned' being an obsessive person who often gets lumped in with 'snobs,' in terms of virtually anything, is that the best thing to do is if you don't know about something, don't say that you do :)
a checklist for sex sounds boring for me, even as often as i try to quantify so much of my life with lists and numbers. sex is certainly best when it goes in it's own direction, and i think also best when it's different than it's been before; or if not different, then new? a familiar 'new,' i guess.
i'll agree with the just 'being with' too. simple pleasures of contact in bed.
Comments 7
Reply
Reply
Reply
first of all, this is kind of selfish, but it's always a relief to me when i find out real working artists end up leaving things to the last minute, as it helps me to both find solace in happy last-minute accidents & reassures that my own work habits aren't just 'naive' or something.
i'm also not sure if i've ever been in a relationship long enough, or enough quantitatively, to know exactly how i actually like sex. i know what things work for me conceptually & autonomously, but they are highly dependent upon the autonomy. who knows!
Reply
Reply
a checklist for sex sounds boring for me, even as often as i try to quantify so much of my life with lists and numbers. sex is certainly best when it goes in it's own direction, and i think also best when it's different than it's been before; or if not different, then new? a familiar 'new,' i guess.
i'll agree with the just 'being with' too. simple pleasures of contact in bed.
Reply
(The comment has been removed)
Reply
Leave a comment