What should they do in order to progress with you and get to know you without creeping you out? Maybe you just aren't ready for considering anything long-term right now. Both of them creeped you out when they said stuff about a future with you or tried to follow-up with you after a date. Do you feel like you just want to go on single dates without long-term possibilities?
... Which is probably part of the reason you shouldn't be dating. It'll be a while before you're over Casey. That's not fair to anyone you'd become involved with...
If you have even the SLIGHTEST sense of doubt about a guy, that's a signal to not go any further. When it's the right guy, you will know and it'll work out. Trust me, I know. I went through something similar.
Maybe what you need is a change of scenery. I'm not necessarily saying MOVE, but maybe you need to try something new. Meet some new people, but not with the intention of finding "the one". Go to a group, a concert, SOMETHING to help you meet some new friends. It can be a great self-esteem boost. Meeting new people helped me get over my ex.
You really need to take care of yourself before you can care for someone else.
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Maybe what you need is a change of scenery. I'm not necessarily saying MOVE, but maybe you need to try something new. Meet some new people, but not with the intention of finding "the one". Go to a group, a concert, SOMETHING to help you meet some new friends. It can be a great self-esteem boost. Meeting new people helped me get over my ex.
You really need to take care of yourself before you can care for someone else.
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