I want that clock. I have a habit of turning the alarm off then sleeping again. Or sleeping through the alarm. Or turning it off without me realizing I've turned it off.
I suppose after I've solved the math problem I'd be awake. It'd better be not simple math though *grin*
About Bestfriend.. sometimes what ifs are hard.. but then you already said that you'd rather have the what if than losing his bestfriendship so.. I guess you've decided. *smile*
It's hard to make that jump with your best guy friend for the very reason you said - what if it doesn't work out and you lose not only your boyfriend but also your best friend?
Real life stuff: I think that after eons of being close friends with boys, I finally understand them.
Well, if you could explain girls to me I'd be forever grateful.
But I do think boys don't tend to think it what ifs so much, playing out various scenarios. More "this is the way it is" even if we might prefer something else.
Of course I'm not an expert on the whole of femininity, but let me give it a shot. Well, if a girl's interested in you, she shows you more attention than she does the regular friend. Not just attention, but she will go out of her way to understand stuff you like and even try to like it herself. She will also try to know your quirks. You may find yourself exclaiming "Wow, I didn't know you knew I liked an obscure pairing like Ron/Pansy!" You may think it similar to stalking... but it's really not.
I'd say you're only a friend if she likes hanging around with you but won't discuss the little things you enjoy that she doesn't. "You read Harry Potter? Isn't that a kids book?"
Uh, did I make sense? And how does it go for guys?
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I suppose after I've solved the math problem I'd be awake. It'd better be not simple math though *grin*
About Bestfriend.. sometimes what ifs are hard.. but then you already said that you'd rather have the what if than losing his bestfriendship so.. I guess you've decided. *smile*
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And about best friend. Yeah, I've decided. I just like second-guessing myself... I'm weird that way.
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*sigh* I'm a dweller on the 'what if' as well. Sometimes it's fun, sometimes it's a real drag. *hugs*
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*hugs back* What ifs are a pain.
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*sigh*
If only life was really simple ...
**hugs you**
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Only a new chapter of NoN will make me feel better, you know... *looks around innocently*
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I am amazed at your dedication to this series... How do you guys write plot?!
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Well, if you could explain girls to me I'd be forever grateful.
But I do think boys don't tend to think it what ifs so much, playing out various scenarios. More "this is the way it is" even if we might prefer something else.
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This is exactly what I wanted to say! I admire that in boys, actually.
Which part of girls do you want explained, then?
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And if that's too much how about figuring out friendly vs interested. Because I've misread that, before, both ways.
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Of course I'm not an expert on the whole of femininity, but let me give it a shot. Well, if a girl's interested in you, she shows you more attention than she does the regular friend. Not just attention, but she will go out of her way to understand stuff you like and even try to like it herself. She will also try to know your quirks. You may find yourself exclaiming "Wow, I didn't know you knew I liked an obscure pairing like Ron/Pansy!" You may think it similar to stalking... but it's really not.
I'd say you're only a friend if she likes hanging around with you but won't discuss the little things you enjoy that she doesn't. "You read Harry Potter? Isn't that a kids book?"
Uh, did I make sense? And how does it go for guys?
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