Comments | fushigi_na_chou: It's apparently sad that I need to request space

fushigi_na_chou

It's apparently sad that I need to request space

Mar 28, 2011 23:28

~.: So today was a pretty productive day. I even went grocery shopping and everything! And I originally wanted to update with all the awesome that was this past weekend into today, but my ex decided to call me and ruin everything. Because he wanted to know what I was working next so he could stop in the store and I could "give him guidance for his ( Read more... )

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hideincarnate March 29 2011, 18:13:18 UTC

I'd personally have his number blocked from being able to call you. Same with texting. I'm not sure HOW you can do it, aside from going into your provider's store and asking for it done. But at least you'd get your space and he couldn't pull these little douchebag tricks of texting you or calling you in order to fuck with your head and feelings. =/

But that's my two cents. XD

fushigi_na_chou March 29 2011, 18:26:46 UTC

I think I can actually do it straight from my phone. I was Googling caller ID blocking earlier, and I think there was something about blocking numbers as well.

hideincarnate March 29 2011, 22:06:11 UTC

Give it a try!

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fushigi_na_chou March 30 2011, 23:15:14 UTC

I think he finally got the picture with this one. I specifically said "don't call me, I'll call you" and added something about a year and a half or somesuch. But, maybe I said "don't call me, I'll call you" before too. :| I just hate that it's causing me trouble like this. Like, really? I have to potentially inconvenience myself because he's a whiny child? -.-"

Sadly, he doesn't read my LJ. I sort of wish he did though; maybe then he'd understand just how much of an ass he is.

zekitty March 31 2011, 11:46:14 UTC

...Oh. Well. I hope my string of caps gives you some gumption! 8D;

It is pretty sad that you have to inconvenience yourself just to be free of this guy, but I feel like it's unhealthy for you for him to keep poking his head in the door to check on you, waiting outside like some ooky stalker for you to come to your senses and talk to him again so he can get his grimy claws around you. He really did strike me as a manipulative person, and I wouldn't be surprised if he's secretly preoccupied with the idea that you're going to come crawling back to him one day. Make sure that idea is never realized on your part.

Just do your best to make sure he's kept away, far, far away, and no one will have to get hurt. :o

fushigi_na_chou March 31 2011, 15:48:03 UTC

He really is more manipulative than I thought or realized, and it makes me mad that I had to suffer through 6 months of his crap before I finally said enough is enough, and even endangered someone who's a very good friend of mine now. I hate it, and a small part of myself as well. I'm so good at recognizing dangerous and unhealthy relationships for other people, but never myself.

At any rate, I have no intention of going back to him, ever, probably not even as a friend after all this. I've become involved with a guy who genuinely cares for me, and has made me feel all the things in a relationship that I thought were supposed to be there, and definitely never were there with Guille. :)

zekitty March 30 2011, 21:02:45 UTC

Yes, clean him out completely. I deleted Nick's number, changed my number, and blocked him on every chat client and social networking site I have an account with. The result? He's finally marrying Meagan and moving on, and my life is so much better without his random calls/texts clotheslining me at every turn ( ... )