Maybe you'd prefer a maiden fair, isn't there a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere

[frabjouslinz]

Saturday, after Michelle's bridal shower and a lot of fun, girly times, Michelle, LuAnn, Scott and I went to a late showing of "Brave" at the Cinnebarre. They bring you food. This was helpful, as we'd eaten food at 3-4, and lots of sugar since then, but at 9:50 we'd yet to eat dinner.

"Brave" was fun, funny, and a great look at family dynamics as

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[mcjulie]

This is a particular kind of sexism that makes me feel really, really, smashy, because it is so often perpetrated by people who think they're making some kind of feminist point. Like this article http://www.salon.com/2012/05/02/the_avengers_and_hollywoods_gender_wars/ which pretty much takes it as a given that "women don't like action movies" even though it talks about The Hunger Games. Dear critics: stop trying to tell me what I, as a woman, think about stuff, because you are wrong, and it's also really patronizing.

Whether Ebert realizes it or not, his statement is incredibly sexist.. Because he finds her actions insufficiently girly, they make her a fake boy, not a sex-neutral character -- which assumes a male default. And, unless all male characters have to be super-manly or else they're honorary girls, he's invoking a blatant double standard. And he's wrong anyway, because her story is extremely girly. It's about her relationship with her mother, and it's about escaping a forced marriage. THOSE ARE TOTALLY GIRL STORIES, DUDE,

[frabjouslinz]

One of the many reasons I heart you is because you help me explore what I'm trying to say. Yes, thanks for clarifying some of that for me. I mean, even the fact that the ending with the suitors was a little abrupt, although I gave it a bit of a pass because hey, the queen was just a bear, everyone's a little tentative about the reality of life and all. I slightly disagree with your complaint, because I thought that part of Merida's bravery was facing up to her mistakes, realizing she had to fix them, working on fixing them, and then really, owning up to it right there at the end; that she had to not only atone, but mean it. That's true bravery without having to be all shooty and climby and ridey. Yes, she does those things, too, and she's good at them. But the bravery was all about personal responsibility. To me

[mcjulie]

thought that part of Merida's bravery was facing up to her mistakes

That's definitely there... sort of. I could almost make it be about a girl who already knows how to be brave in a physical way, then has to struggle to find the bravery to admit that she was wrong. She does go from denying that the whole bear thing is her fault, to admitting that it is. But to me it didn't feel like a significant story point -- maybe because she's already trying to help her mother, so it doesn't change the direction of the story?

Anyway, I enjoyed the movie, but found it a little unsatisfying -- like there was some crucial ingredient missing, and I've been trying to put my finger on what. But I guarantee you the missing ingredient was not "Merida is a fake boy."