I don't claim to know anything about relationships, but from my own experience, the best thing I learned was this: If a relationship isn't making you HAPPY it's probably not right. There are some kinds of problems that all couples must deal with, that are worth working through because the rest is so good. But when a relationship is reduced to little more than working through problems, it's probably not right. Honestly, your situation sounds alot like my Curtis one, and well, you know how I feel about that.
Either way, I'm here for you, in your time zone, and I'll come cheer you up soon! <3
No, it's right on target. He said he is going to seek professional help. The only times I feel bad are when I think that I kicked all the support out from under him right before he started building up a new support network (therapist, e.g.), and when I remember him already talking about and making changes (the way he treated me the night I got back and all the ideas he had for doing things besides going to pubs). But they're overshadowed by his emotional instability and dependency. It was destabilizing me and making me afraid to be myself around him.
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Either way, I'm here for you, in your time zone, and I'll come cheer you up soon! <3
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Thanks for your words.
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