Lol, in my family, actually the second marriages have been the ones that last, perhaps it's a matter of learning perspective, or perhaps it's a matter of realizing that things have to be pretty bad to want to go through the hell of a divorce (there's an old blues song titled "It's Cheaper to Keep Her" about just that
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when i entered into my marriage, it was with the thought that i only want to do this once, and do my best to make it work. unfortunately, it didnt work out that way. Every effort to try to make it work was taken, but in the end, it was for the best that it didnt. We went to counceling prior to getting married, went back afterwards as well. tried moving to see if that would help. it didnt. the last time i suggested counceling, it was rejected, that's when i realized that the other party didnt want to try as hard as i did. I was no longer my own person, changing who i was to make him happy, since he wasnt happy with me being me, but that didnt work either, it just made me miserable. you cant make someone else happy if your not happy with yourself, and even then, sometimes you just cant make someone happy. Will I ever get married again, i dont know. for some reason, that little piece of paper changes things. like it's as if they realize that it is harder for you to leave, so they dont try as hard. the fun goes away, and you
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Hi Hannah, I know it has been forever since we spoke and we werew supposed to get together. I am sorry that things got incredibly crazy and it didnt happen. Please let me know if maybe we can get together and catch up. reply or comment to my journal, i have more time now things have settled, let me know. Sincerely, Sarah (ex-angry poet) Inked6
Yea it's my fault too, I've been so busy with shit cause of knee and stomach problems and school and life. Bleh. Yea we have to get together and catch up at some point. I'm almost at finals right now so it's still a bit chaotic but after the 19th things should be a bit more relaxed. I'm usually free monday nights, but sometimes other nights too. Well ttyl!
hey hannah, this is about the nuvaring: i keep it in for 4 weeks, and then take it out for 1 week. put it in for another 4 weeks, take it out for 1 week. this just extends my cycle to 35 days instead of the 28 that i'd have if i kept it in for 3 weeks and took it out for one. that way, each ring lasts me 5 weeks instead of 4, and so i save money 'cause i only have to buy 10 rings a year instead of 12. i pay $11 a ring, so it comes out to $10.40 a month if i use a ring for 5 weeks. that's the only reason i haven't tried skipping my period yet, lol.
if you check out nuva_ring or birthcontrol, you can find experiences of women who put it in for 4 weeks, take it out and then immediately put it another one, and only have a period every 3 rings this way, like you'd asked in the IM. this gives you a 90-day cycle. and it's successful for lots of people. i have never tried skipping my period on the ring yet, but i will try it for the first time this month. i'm gonna take the ring out on dec 28 and then put a new one in that day 'cause i don't want my period
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I know it has been forever since we spoke and we werew supposed to get together. I am sorry that things got incredibly crazy and it didnt happen. Please let me know if maybe we can get together and catch up. reply or comment to my journal, i have more time now things have settled, let me know.
Sincerely,
Sarah (ex-angry poet)
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i keep it in for 4 weeks, and then take it out for 1 week. put it in for another 4 weeks, take it out for 1 week. this just extends my cycle to 35 days instead of the 28 that i'd have if i kept it in for 3 weeks and took it out for one. that way, each ring lasts me 5 weeks instead of 4, and so i save money 'cause i only have to buy 10 rings a year instead of 12. i pay $11 a ring, so it comes out to $10.40 a month if i use a ring for 5 weeks. that's the only reason i haven't tried skipping my period yet, lol.
if you check out nuva_ring or birthcontrol, you can find experiences of women who put it in for 4 weeks, take it out and then immediately put it another one, and only have a period every 3 rings this way, like you'd asked in the IM. this gives you a 90-day cycle. and it's successful for lots of people. i have never tried skipping my period on the ring yet, but i will try it for the first time this month. i'm gonna take the ring out on dec 28 and then put a new one in that day 'cause i don't want my period ( ... )
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