Not much to say anymore these days but some things are worth remembering

[fimbrethil]

Twenty-five years ago today this happened. He chose me. No matter what happened afterward, no matter how many years pass since he died, I will always remember that out of all the women in this world, Liam chose me. What a lucky person I was. :)

Comments

[wcg]

Yes, he chose well.

This being the "left behind" partner thing is a difficulty. Isn't it? And I think "nostalgic" is the perfect mood for the occasion.

[fimbrethil]

Thank you, Bill.

Yes, this "left behind" thing is a difficulty, even when we are lucky enough to find someone else to take the rest of the journey with us.

Yes, nostalgic fits today because my mind is full of good memories.

Remembering Love

[miss_whiplash]

My heart goes out to you. The anniversary; the date you remembered for years is the one date not easily forgotten. I've almost a year to my first such event and have no idea how it will take me.

Re: Remembering Love

[fimbrethil]

You have been on my mind lately but I am always afraid of saying the wrong thing during a time of loss because so many wrong things have been said to me during my loss. Anyway, thanks for reaching out today, I really appreciate it. And you are in my thoughts, even if I don't say much to you.

Liam and I had so many anniversaries: our first date, our 3 month, 6 month and year anniversaries, our engagement etc., etc. And so, so many songs. He left me so many good, good memories which is probably why today hurts so much because he should be here, celebrating it with me.

Re: Remembering Love

[miss_whiplash]

Talk, you won't say anything wrong. We had 36 years together and in the end he wanted to die. Everyone knew him differently and they talk about the man they knew.

[mac_arthur_park]

<3 *hugs*

[fimbrethil]

Thanks, Al.

[coyotegoth]

*hug*

[fimbrethil]

Back atchya. I've been feeling pretty wistful and nostalgic lately. Right now, my desktop background is a certain bald lady with a plush elephant sitting atop her head.

[coyotegoth]

I hear that- I keep hearing Kate Bush or Stevie Nicks being played here and there, and think, "Someone's singing in my ear..." If I should ever find myself in NYC for a bit, somewhere down the road, I hope that we get to cross paths.

[fimbrethil]

Me too.

[funjon]

Happy Anniversary, hon. *hugs*

I think you both chose extremely well.

[fimbrethil]

Thank you, my friend.

Aw. Thanks.