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femmenoire

Transitions aka a mini update on life and fandom

May 20, 2010 21:29

Life here has been ridiculous. Every day pretty much ends with me vegged out in front of the tv before I pass out. Even days where I haven't done much I'm so emotionally exhausted that I can't really think straight.

( Personal drama... feel free to not read. )

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Comments 8

djkiwi2576 May 21 2010, 01:51:36 UTC

Hugs from me to you. I hope you snap out of the funk soon. I saw Losers last week too. I squee'd. I thought it was better than the reviewers gave it credit for.

femmenoire May 21 2010, 03:08:13 UTC

*hugs you back* Thank you so much!

Ok, I'm glad someone else thought The Losers was good. I was expecting it to be so bad I'd cringe my way through it, but I was pleasantly surprised. Honestly, I don't think it was so much worse than other comic book adaptations, the storyline and action was great, and the cast was superb. So I'm really confused about the bad reviews... Anyway, yay!

tokenblkgirl May 21 2010, 02:26:34 UTC

He's never left the country and no matter what he says, it's clear that he doesn't really want to. That's not me. Sometimes I felt like being with him would mean giving up on all of the traveling and adventures I want to have.

That is a pretty big difference. I've always thought that if relationships survive time apart, they're built to last. Cliche, I know, but the best ones tend to preserver despite the odds. I hope things work out best for both of you, no matter what happens.

*clears throat* As for London, I'm a officially jealous to a ridiculous degree. God, I hope you have fun there, and see lots of cute boys with British accents that buy you pints and call you "love" or whatever.

But not the Armitage because he's mine. :P

tokenblkgirl May 21 2010, 02:27:13 UTC

ETA: I'm with you on the SPN finale BTW. I'm just glad that season's over.

femmenoire May 21 2010, 03:05:45 UTC

If I met The Armitage... You're amazing, but I'd have to chuck you to the side. ;)

No seriously, one of the things I've always secretly loved about British men is that they do call women "love." It's nice going through airport security and the last thing a guy will say to me is "Come on through love." It makes leaving so much sweeter.

And thank you. I'm not sure how I feel about not being with him/him possibly seeing other people but thanks for the well wishes. Also, you're right, we're so very different. I think the little romantic piece of my heart thought we would get past that but I've had to realize that this isn't a romance novel and sometimes people might just be too different for a relationship to work. *sigh*

And OMG, SPN... I'm sad to say that I'm very happy the season is over as well...

meiou_set May 21 2010, 03:53:34 UTC

I'm sorry to hear about your break up. I kinda can bond since me and the s.o. started on two divergent paths like that. I went abroad shortly after we got together and he made my year so nightmarish I'm shocked I didn't dump him. Even after that it's been kind of push and pull and it's only now that we're getting to harmonize in common adventure levels, etc.

But traveling to London! Sounds so exciting! I was these this Feb and my finances still haven't recovered. =_= I think there's still pounds on my oyster T_T

Ditto about Vampire Diaries, I thought it'd be so hokey and it ended up being the best thing since sliced bread, which makes me happy because me and SPN are in a bad spot. I don't even know how to react to the ending, S5 has just been a constant disappointment to me :/

blackmamba_esq May 21 2010, 04:00:15 UTC

I'm so sorry to hear about your break up. I had the same problem with my ex, so I understand how that can feel awful but be a relief at the same time.

I HATE YOU FOR GOING TO LONDON.

Just had to get that out :p But you do inspire me to get off my ass and travel again. I've never been out of the country and told myself I'd do it by my 30th B day. Little behind.

OMG, the SPN finale was just bleh. I felt that way about the entire season though. But Bobby lives! \o/

keenan24 May 21 2010, 12:28:35 UTC

I'm sorry for the break up but it's a good thing you did not put you aspirations on hold to wait out and see if the relationship could have sailed through. Sometimes even love or at least care cannot erase too many differences, especially when they are fondamental to your core being.

God I'm so jealous of you right now. I used to travel a lot (changed country every two years) but I'm kind of stuck in my country for at least a year before leaving again. London is MY DREAM CITY TO LIVE IN so I hope you make the best of the summer there. Maybe you'll even bring some much needed Sun there!

And British men... Le sigh.

You're a fan of Vincent D'OnoFrio too? *high fives you!* This guy is so underrated it pisses me off because he's one of the best and most original actors of his generation. And he's got charm!
Ditto on TVDs : a very good surprise indeed, i'm just glad it didn't turn into Twilight 2.0