A little bit about my life and the fandoms that have saved it through the years:

Oct 16, 2014 22:16

A little bit about my life and the fandoms that have saved it through the years:

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a_phoenixdragon October 16 2014, 22:40:34 UTC
Bless you, dearest. You are stronger than you will ever know.

*hugs you hard*

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femme_slash_fan October 16 2014, 22:43:41 UTC
Awh, thank you. *hugs* I just hit the limit today and went 'I am so fucking done hiding'

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fairyniamh October 17 2014, 00:15:48 UTC
I am thankful that Xena, Bea, and others for keeping you strong. It's not always easy, but I know fandoms and the friends you make there can be a tremendous help.

Shoot, my Harry Potter fandom friends (A fandoms I left 6 years ago) will still pull through for me and so will my Star Trek friends. The one time (in my adult life) I sent out a call for help, because I was exactly where you were when Bea helped you this last time, those two fandoms pulled together and pulled me out of the dark. So keeping those connections can be a vital part of your life. Even if the stories no longer call to you, the people there will always act as a safety net that you never knew you needed.

Just remember, what defines us, is how well we rise after falling; and I think you are rising rather well sweetheart. *hugs*


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femme_slash_fan October 17 2014, 17:08:50 UTC
I'm still so freaking proud that I can say 'I need help' cause otherwise I could have let myself fall apart so quickly.

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katemacetak October 17 2014, 01:07:14 UTC
*hugs* I'm so glad fandom has been able to help you so much.

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femme_slash_fan October 17 2014, 17:08:04 UTC
It's literally stopped me so many times.

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flowsoffire October 17 2014, 06:03:16 UTC
*hugs* I'm sorry that you went through all of this, dear. But I'm so glad fandom could help you keep going even in your darkest place. And yes, you don't have to hide. You don't have to be ashamed of who you are, or feel the need to keep it in the dark. You are a stronger person for all the hardships you've survived, for seeing it all through and still holding on, no matter how hard that was and how much you wished to give up sometimes. It's a part of you, if a painful part…

♥♥♥

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femme_slash_fan October 17 2014, 17:07:43 UTC
I mostly put this out there because so many people do give up and I don't like that. Hell, I came through and I'll fight for others to survive.

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flowsoffire October 17 2014, 19:09:53 UTC
This so much. ♥♥♥

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liadtbunny October 17 2014, 15:37:56 UTC
*Hugs* I'm sorry about all the shit you've experienced. Don't give up - you aren't broken xxxx

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femme_slash_fan October 17 2014, 17:06:50 UTC
I feel it sometimes.

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liadtbunny October 18 2014, 15:06:49 UTC
Aw love *double hugs*

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femme_slash_fan October 20 2014, 17:56:39 UTC
*hugs again*

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