Take the red pill, take the blue pill?

[fearlessmonk]

I seem to be incapable of making up my own mind. I suppose I have time to hammer this stuff out but the indecision is just bugging me. Everyday I think I've decided, but everyday is a different answer.

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[itsarick]

I've heard the "so far away from my family" argument far too many times... and from the same person. But that's neither here nor there. I live 12 hours away from my family. Yeah, it was scary, but I've made it for 7 years now, and I'm doing ok.

My move was a hard move, no doubt, but I did it. Through the good and the bad that have happened to me, ultimately I don't regret it.

Of course, as the saying goes, your mileage may vary.

[fearlessmonk]

Yeah, I'm not really all that close to my family so it's a pretty minor consideration. But, I figured it was worth including on the list.

I just can't pick because my mind keeps asking why I would move farther away for a smaller support group.

[itsarick]

I can understand that. I moved down here with a support group at the time totaling a whopping 2 people.

I've come a long way since then. :)

Sometimes you go with the support you have, and then build from there.

[fearlessmonk]

Oh! It's nice to know someone's been there. This is helpful.
That's the exact situation I'd be getting in. I'll have two friends and then some amtgarders that I know vaguely.
It's a little worrisome because I have problems making friends. Which is why the other place looks like a more attractive move.