So, when dealing with the passive and passive/aggressive, I find it easiest to work in writing. A lot of times it's easier for the passive to be clear on paper, rather than having to stammer around and do it in your face. You may have to write her an e-mail that asks her all of these things in really painfully polite terms. Which is, tragically, one of the few ways to work with the passive.
Yeah, I wrote everything down but am saving sending it for tomorrow. I chose words carefully and want to sleep on it and make sure nothing's overly harsh.
It's just that this isn't really an awkward, personal, social situation. It's pretty much business and there's no need for this. Eh well. It's not enough to be mad about, I just needed a head-clearing vent.
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It's just that this isn't really an awkward, personal, social situation. It's pretty much business and there's no need for this. Eh well. It's not enough to be mad about, I just needed a head-clearing vent.
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