"There is a proverb on this planet," Obi-Wan said quietly. "'Forgive and forget.'" If he had noticed the influx of children last weekend, he was not saying a word about it. There might have been a reason for that
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Discussion: Regret and ForgivenesssaddeserthermitNovember 25 2015, 14:44:45 UTC
Where does regret slip into self-loathing? Why is it sometimes easier to forgive others than ourselves? Or for some of you, why is it easier to forgive one's self than to forgive those around you? Are all regrets created equal?
Is there a mental limit you have for forgiving or excusing the same person?
Re: Discussion: Regret and ForgivenessbestatmysteryNovember 25 2015, 14:56:47 UTC
"I had my personal worst day well early," said the fourteen year old. "So I had to learn to let go of regret right quick, or I woulda DROWNED in it." In fact, wee Lottie had spent her weekend hiding in her closet doing just that. So this was pretty fresh on her mind. "As for other people . . . at a certain point if they're doin the same thing over and over, that's just who they are. Even if they say they're regrettin it, they're not learning from it. So you need to move on."
RE: Re: Discussion: Regret and ForgivenessbestatmysteryNovember 25 2015, 15:47:11 UTC
"Not totally," Lottie said. "I'm still human. But I feel it and then I move on. It works for me. And it made me immune to the giant hope devouring walnut that tried to eat my town, so."
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Isabela was glad she'd remembered to bring her flask to class again.
Best. Coping. Methods. Ever.
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Is there a mental limit you have for forgiving or excusing the same person?
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