Being Forgiving

Aug 13, 2013 19:53

Coni and I were talking about 'being forgiving' the other day ( Read more... )

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excused_early August 14 2013, 04:46:24 UTC
It can't even be called a rumor, actually.
A tabloid fantasy, really. lol

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bellevoix321 August 14 2013, 07:35:58 UTC
Word. It so ludicrous I couldn't give it a second thought. I'm just going to go and listen to Fragrance ala DRUG Party and be ok.

Ps, grandmother quotes are indeed a low blow, but most likely untrue or misconstrued.

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excused_early August 14 2013, 23:52:41 UTC
Hahahaha
Fragrance makes everything all betta!!! =w=d

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mjspice August 14 2013, 00:56:41 UTC
excused_early August 14 2013, 04:50:13 UTC
Yeah, Ogata-san was another huge low.

I don't know if he should say something about it.
If he thinks it's in his best interest to do so, I guess he will.
Fans usually want to hear him say something against these accusations, I guess. But I think that's usually because they are actually not entirely sure themselves.

And to be honest, I don't think either his grandmother or Ogata-san (floating beautifully in the universe) could care less if G said a word about it. They'd only want him to if that's what he really wants to do.

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gothrockrulz August 14 2013, 03:33:08 UTC
I only heard vague snippets about the rumors--I had NO IDEA they quoted his grandmother. You're right, that's low, really low. There's no need to apologize for getting angry about that. That's a hearty anger.

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excused_early August 14 2013, 04:52:36 UTC
Hahaha, thank you. XD

This anger will turn into a little heartache for our G by tomorrow, though. :')

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gothrockrulz August 14 2013, 06:56:07 UTC
Mmmhmmm. *hugs for G and everyone in the fandom*

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sarahlgollum August 14 2013, 03:39:35 UTC
It's hard for me to forgive. Because if I forgive, then I think I kinda forget because I tend to let that person back into my life, and the pattern repeats. Unless, of course, I never see that person again in my life, then it's easy just to forget. Notice I didn't say forgive though XD. But that's just me XD I'm kind of at peace with it. As crazy as it sounds, I'm trying to embrace both sides, the good and bad, of myself. Or at least acknowledge the bad, instead of pretending it's not there anymore I mean XD.

THEN, I get to the end of this post and crack up laughing XD LOL. You're so cute! <3<3<3 But yeah, I was laughing at the ridiculousness of it all, but then became angry (and worried like the mother hen I amXD) for G. It's disgusting to bring up 2 people that are very important to him, and use that against him. But of course, the last couple of tabloid stories have been rather disgusting period. I wonder if he'll ignore it, or if we'll get a strongly worded blog post XD.

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excused_early August 14 2013, 05:06:32 UTC
Everybody has a different way to deal with stressful situations, and whatever works for that person is the right method, I think. :)
But what I didn't mention in my post (because I didn't want it to be too long) is that just because I 'forgive' doesn't mean I 'forget'. I don't forget. Ever. lol And I don't repeat the same mistakes of, for instance, being taken advantage of, etc. I'm no pushover. lol
If someone hurts me, and I think it's likely they'll do it again, then I move away from them. Period.
But I still forgive them. Anger doesn't consume me. I just simply move on. Doesn't mean it doesn't hurt for a while, though. But I'd choose sadness over hate a hundred times over.

And YaaaaaY, I got a seal of approval for 'cute'! :'D lol
Yes, you're right. Using two of the people G loves the most in the whole world, and the way they even had the gall to 'combine' the two, is utterly disgusting.
We'll see if he says something. Poor G... When can he get a break? :(

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pyroyale August 14 2013, 03:59:21 UTC
The grandmother thing was beyond low. Although to be honest I don't know what's worse - that they spoke to her at all (regardless of whether there's any misquoting or taking out of context) or that they didn't and they just made it up. From past experience of seeing GACKT's reaction to tabloid rumours and how he can laugh them off unless they get personal I suspect that last paragraph probably floored him.

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excused_early August 14 2013, 05:09:11 UTC
Yeah, I mean, I'm assuming that they didn't even talk to her, you know?
For one thing, I imagine she has a very strong Okinawan accent anyway... lol
And if they were gonna fabricate every word anyway, then what's the point of even calling her?

Yes, it hurts me just imagining what those words may have done to him... :'(

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