Comments | evilbil: And you may find yourself in a beautiful house, with a beautiful wife

evilbil

And you may find yourself in a beautiful house, with a beautiful wife

Aug 10, 2003 21:45

This month I've woken up on the couches of Kalamazoo, Detroit and Chicago; I've woken up on the ground, next to a stranger in the deep woods of Canada; I've woken up in Japanese country sides, in Tokyo, on bullet trains and international planes ( Read more... )

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mcentellas August 11 2003, 00:08:45 UTC

Well, since attraction is a very complex thing, going beyond just physical attributes, then: YES. I do think that you can date someone more "attractive" than yourself. And it can totally work.

I'm sure there are "beautiful" women out there that aren't shallow and look beyond the surface. They might want someone who also looks beyond their surface beauty and recognizes what else makes them wonderful.

And, after all, when we're "in love", we tend to think that our mate is the most beautifulest person out there. We only see their little flaws after we break up.

evilbil August 11 2003, 01:51:40 UTC

there's something safe and wonderful about thinking your partner is the most beautiful in world and knowing that only certain other people look at her simalarly.
There's all kinds of stunning men or women with less attractive partners who are drawn to them by other things; I suppose it works sometimes but that the physical attractivity thing remains a lingering issue, probably more in the form of paranoia from the non-supermodel.
I'm pretty much equally physically attracted to all of my x's as I was before the relationship (maybe not at its height)

puppytron August 11 2003, 05:39:02 UTC

No bill, you are right. If those things dont happen in actuality...the paranoia will surely destroy you.

but on another level, maybe she is worrying all this time how you are much funnier than she will ever be, and girls will constantly try to offer you funny jokes that she cannot provide you with...

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Attractiveness is nothing worth getting hung up about. eggflipped August 15 2003, 22:23:32 UTC

I'd like to say something helpful, but I can't. She'll probably just leave you for some really handsome guy with big muscles.

Maybe questions about attractiveness are the wrong kinds of questions. You should ask yourself, "Can she change her own oil?" or "Does she make good biscuits and gravy?"

Re: Attractiveness is nothing worth getting hung up about. evilbil August 15 2003, 23:46:06 UTC

i decided we're probably a wretched couple anyway and that I'm again over looking many troublesom traits due to her overwhelming, unnatural, Playboy centerfold type beauty. What I need most is a girl who can't keep her hands off me but who can also talk circles around me.

Hmmm anonymous August 16 2003, 09:38:12 UTC

What make one person choose a person as a partner anyway? Looks may be a part of it. You say you want someone to challenge you intellectually, but maybe you really don't want that on some level too. Maybe on some level you do not want to be challenged at all. Maybe you want to relax and not have to talk about things or figure them out. Maybe you just want to be close to something or someone who's beauty brings comfort to you ( ... )

Re: Hmmm ryaneasy August 21 2003, 14:30:33 UTC

Sorry Bill,.. I already have the woman that Mellissa is refering to ( ... )