Comments | ericahope05: man.. i need to change some things in my life

ericahope05

man.. i need to change some things in my life

Nov 30, 2004 12:08

Well.. i totally had a eye-opening/life changing experience from one of my friends.. about somethings.. and i totally realized that people use me all the time.. and i don't stand up for myself.. i also realized that most of the time i put on a fake smile for people.. its wierd.. to know that your doing that.. I mean its not that i'm not happy.. cus ( Read more... )

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go_dawgs_gkl November 30 2004, 20:32:55 UTC

it's a good thing to realize it, but the hardest part is REALLY not allowing people to do it anymore....

Hey vtec_neon December 1 2004, 20:39:38 UTC

well you are to sweet dont change that for anyone and you should always tell people what is on your mind you should never hold it in if you do you will never get a strait answer from anyone and they will walk over you every chance they get that is why i always say what i think and dont care what others think of that and you should do the same and if you do that you will never be woundering what if????? what if i would have said this?? well dont let things get you down just look up and say !!!skrew it!!!

uncannypenguin December 2 2004, 14:19:50 UTC

hey erica, that's complete bullshit. We've never taken advantage of you, and you've always told us if you have problem. If you think otherwise, than you need to take a double take. I mean, look at us in first period. We aren't the only friends you have probably, but we are he weirdest bunch with our own problems and such. Secondly, if you think you were everybody's doormat, than the fault lies with them. There is no need to make somebody feel like a doormat unless there is something there i something you want to hide yourself. Also, don't let yourself be a target. If you keep putting on a fake smile, stop smiling. People are ignorant. If they see a problem, they'll ask about it. If you are smiling, then there are no problems, so life goes on as normal. If you aren't happy, then act pissed off. It'll get you some space, it'll have people back off, or even get people to ask questions so you can vent. Seriuosly, I considered at one time running away from my hous ecause of the shit my parents used to make me go through ( courtesy of my ( ... )