i'm tired of feeling and being left out. it doesn't matter that much though, in the end, because i know i won't really see half this people after graduation.
I can definitely relate to this because all through middle school and high school I tended to make friends with people who weren't exactly the most considerate (although really fun friends otherwise) which led to me being left out a LOT. The only thing I can say to possibly make you feel better is that college friends are a lot better. I think that by the time you get to college, you know who you are a lot better than when you're in high school or middle school, so you tend to become friends with people that you're more compatible with. Also, in college, you start over completely fresh, so you don't have to deal with going to school with people that you've known for a long time and might have different perceptions of you from the past. Being left out fucking sucks, so I hope it doesn't keep happening to you.
if you're talking about high school graduation, i graduated about two years ago, and talk to maybe ten people i went to high school with. and that's not even on a regular basis - that's just when we're all home from breaks and we don't know anyone else to hang out with.
the fun part? we weren't even friends in high school. we started hanging out/talking after we'd all left for college & came back for breaks.
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The only thing I can say to possibly make you feel better is that college friends are a lot better. I think that by the time you get to college, you know who you are a lot better than when you're in high school or middle school, so you tend to become friends with people that you're more compatible with. Also, in college, you start over completely fresh, so you don't have to deal with going to school with people that you've known for a long time and might have different perceptions of you from the past.
Being left out fucking sucks, so I hope it doesn't keep happening to you.
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and yeah, i think a fresh start is really what i need the most. i'm definately excited to make new friends.
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the fun part? we weren't even friends in high school. we started hanging out/talking after we'd all left for college & came back for breaks.
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i feel like that's how it's going to be for me too
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