I'm sorry, but if that sack of shit Robby cared enough about you in the first place, he wouldn't have broken up with you how many times? You can't let yourself get pulled into his emotional tug-of-war because he can't figure shit out himself until its too late.
Chin up, gal. You've got a guy who cares a lot about you, but if you feel like you really can't be in a relationship at the moment because of the situation, do what is best for you, and only you.
can't let yourself get pulled into his emotional tug-of-war because he can't figure shit out himself until its too late.
(FFUU- I forgot where I was and almost did green text) Agreed; I mean, maybe he's come quite a way since the last time, but from the sound of it he's still got a bit to go and the feeling I get (and this is nothing against you [Sara, I mean]) is that that wasn't what you wanted. I was wondering something, though -- is it possible that you're both pretty torn up about how things are now because you're still keeping in touch? Might it be better if you scaled that back a bit?
maybe you just need to take a month or so and be alone...calm your head a bit. go to katsucon...have fun with friends, etc etc.
Even if rob hurt you...you cant just shake feelings for someone you liked. its not the movies where the dude is caught being a dick...or people part ways and everything is A-ok.
I understand the fear of being alone. but take it from me, you'll ruin what you have if you dont take time to give yourself a breath.
As you know im here for ya whenever. shoot me a text or IM. Feel better.
I don't personally know you or Robby or the exact day to day of the situation but I've been following these posts long enough now that I at least have a feel for the situation. And I understand what you are going through having been there before myself
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Chin up, gal. You've got a guy who cares a lot about you, but if you feel like you really can't be in a relationship at the moment because of the situation, do what is best for you, and only you.
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(FFUU- I forgot where I was and almost did green text)
Agreed; I mean, maybe he's come quite a way since the last time, but from the sound of it he's still got a bit to go and the feeling I get (and this is nothing against you [Sara, I mean]) is that that wasn't what you wanted.
I was wondering something, though -- is it possible that you're both pretty torn up about how things are now because you're still keeping in touch? Might it be better if you scaled that back a bit?
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maybe you just need to take a month or so and be alone...calm your head a bit. go to katsucon...have fun with friends, etc etc.
Even if rob hurt you...you cant just shake feelings for someone you liked. its not the movies where the dude is caught being a dick...or people part ways and everything is A-ok.
I understand the fear of being alone. but take it from me, you'll ruin what you have if you dont take time to give yourself a breath.
As you know im here for ya whenever. shoot me a text or IM. Feel better.
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