My suggestion would be to finish school and get that sweet job in California before getting married. It doesn't sound like BJ's going anywhere in the near future, so that wouldn't likely be much of a problem, eh? How long would you be leaving him for? Can you take him with you? Good luck, at any rate. I'm glad things are going well! I miss you and such. . .
Although my problems are less serious then yours, I'm also starting to wonder if I'm growing up too fast. I'm training to be a manager at my job, which means I'll have to move up here permanently. Which is scary stuff. It also means I can't do the traveling thing until I quit my job...And I guarenteed my manager the 8 years I'll be in college.
But anyway, Julio loves you. He should want you to do what makes you happy, even if that means leaving for a year at a time. Talk to him about it to decide whether to wait until after your married or push the marriage off a bit and stay engaged longer. Being apart is hard, but I assume if you're getting married your love is strong enough to stand it.
And it's a good reason for him to take a vacation to Germany or italy or poland. He can bring me. :-D
Like my avatar? You know you do ;)needsomemoolaFebruary 10 2008, 00:49:13 UTC
Whatever you do and wherever you go, I plan on doing it with you (giggidy). It will work out. :) All I need is to stay here for a few more years (for my resume and professional experience) and then we can go wherever we want to go (lest you don't want me to come along). Seems like we'll be here that long anyway for the remainder of your schooling. Plus, by then we'll be much better off financially (no tuition, debt and credit paid off, equity in our house so we can use that elsewhere, washer and dryer paid off, etc...) so it will be easier to pull up and go. ;) Maybe Cody and Tracy will be in CA and we can try to find a place over there. Too bad the ocean water is cold year round that side of the states. boo. Google is there though ;)
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But anyway, Julio loves you. He should want you to do what makes you happy, even if that means leaving for a year at a time. Talk to him about it to decide whether to wait until after your married or push the marriage off a bit and stay engaged longer. Being apart is hard, but I assume if you're getting married your love is strong enough to stand it.
And it's a good reason for him to take a vacation to Germany or italy or poland. He can bring me. :-D
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Love,
BJ
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