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eggchan

あたし・・・シャイな人かな？

Mar 04, 2013 09:39

Last Friday marks the 6th time this one co-worker of mine has told me that there was a "discussion" about me with a group of my other co-workers. Nothing bad, but apparently they sometimes bring me up in conversation and I become the "hot topic" if you know what I mean ( Read more... )

oh god help me, frustration, gong yoo, life, rants & ravings

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simplyshiny514 March 4 2013, 18:33:39 UTC

I know how you feel, It took me a while to get into the groove of things at my job too...and I only work with about 10 other people (and only about 4 a night) It's getting better now....my problem is outside of work. I moved here about 9 months ago, and still need to meet new people besides the ones I worked with and my roommate's friends

eggchan March 14 2013, 04:05:29 UTC

It's so hard to meet people once you graduate from school and get a big girl job T___T for reals... but I am glad to hear that I'm not the only person that has troubles with this ><;; seems like most people who commented are on the same level.. what's up with my workplace and having so many outgoing people??

btw you could try using the website meetup.com if you are in the US? I met a lot of really good friends in the past through those meetup groups.

simplyshiny514 March 17 2013, 16:17:34 UTC

I actually joined meetup when I moved down here about 9 months ago, I JUST went to my first one recently, it was actually a Japanese study group. A man from Hokkaido and his wife run it....it was only us three when I was there, but it was nice...it will be nice to get into studying Japanese too....I also just found out that I know someone in one of the other groups, so hopefully I can make myself go. It took me almost 9 months to get up the courage to go to this first one though, so we'll see ( ... )

lavenderhana5 March 5 2013, 05:45:57 UTC

I am actually quite the same as you so I am grateful that you wrote this post because I, myself, feel not alone anymore too thanks to you and the commenters here. :D
I'm currently not working but at school I try to make friends, especially in class, because there is always this feel of 'jealousy' for the people who have a group or the feeling of wanting to belong when you're in a certain environment and just, you know, wanting to connect with people.
I know that I lack confidence and courage a lot and I am doing all the possible things to build them up so we should face forward, be grateful of what we already have, strive for the better, and hopefully all of us overcome our shyness and inferiorities (in other cases).
Ganbatte to all of us! :D

eggchan March 14 2013, 04:08:27 UTC

aaahhh! Don't you hate when you feel like you have to barge into a circle of friends just to make any friends?? I always feel like that is so pushy and.. I dunno.. I never want to do that but it seems like you have to do that if you want to get to know people these days.. my workplace was pretty similar in the sense that there were already a pretty tight knit group of people that I felt like I needed to barge into if I wanted to make any headway... but like you said, it's really nice to be able to see that other people are like this and I am not alone.. maybe I should just ignore what that guy keeps saying and go on my merry way..? ^^ sounds like something Ohno would say

hidekodahlia March 5 2013, 22:51:45 UTC

You are such a sweetheart, I can't think of a reason why anyone would think you were unapproachable. D: <3 ( ... )

aichijet March 11 2013, 01:44:02 UTC

I never thought of you as shy. And I always think of you as fun. Boo for people who are so superficial.

eggchan March 14 2013, 04:09:29 UTC

aww thank you!! I am beginning to think that my workplace has an abnormal amount of people who are way too outgoing and outspoken.. perhaps that is my problem XD;;

About Coffee Prince pau0oline May 9 2013, 18:26:52 UTC

I apologize for this random, super late, and oddly placed post. But I saw you asking for recommendations for good Coffee Prince MVs and I always have the need to direct someone to watch JennyProductions MVs. She makes amazing MVS for several kdramas and has this ability to make you want to watch dramas from her mvs alone. Here is the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hhIxyiplVaU

Check out her other works as well!

Also, considering how amazing Gong Yoo is, it's such a bummer Big was a failure. Hong sisters and Gong yoo? You would've thought a masterpiece was gonna happen. Also sucks that Yoon Eun Hye has been in a slew of terrible dramas lately. She needs to get back into her coffee prince mode!

Re: About Coffee Prince eggchan May 9 2013, 22:37:38 UTC

Hiya! It's okay that it is random and super late haha...

but I kind of found this funny because actually... JennyProductions is my favorite MV maker..! And I watched her Coffee Prince MV a thousand times! It's seriously so good... all of her stuff is really basic and doesn't have lots of flourishes or anything which is what I really like about it.. the music always goes so well with whatever she's doing and her cuts are GREAT. Nothing but love for JP ^_^

It is really a huge bummer how bad BIG was and it honestly started out SO GOOD... like I could not stop watching it I was entranced by it, and (most of) the characters were interesting, the acting was great.. EVERYTHING was spot on with it except for the plot. What a shame. And yeah I miss YEH a lot I hope she gets another really epic role again some time. I watched Little Black Dress (her movie from last year) and it was not terrible, but definitely was lacking in something.

Anyway, have a good day ^^