Need to vent - ARRRRRRRRRRRGH

[earthymamawitch]

I am so angry with my husband right now. We just had a phone conversation that ended in him yelling at me and hanging up on me. It pisses me off so badly because I was making a real effort to listen to him and hear his thoughts and feelings and sharing mine back in a non-critical, caring way, and he couldnt do the same back to me. No, I DARED

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[skyrose]

I talked to my therapist about this last week, and it really crystallized alot of my thoughts and feelings about this. She says its controlling and borderline abusive, and I can't help but wonder if she's right.

In my opinion, the only thing your therapist is wrong about is the word "borderline". It is abusive. *hugs* Please listen to your therapist... What does she suggest?