Poll Child Rearin' ETA: For the sake of avoiding discrepancies over my wording, assume by "beat" I mean "corporal punishment" or "physical discipline." To be clear, all of my friends that were "spanked"/"whooped"/etc used all three terms interchangeably. My use of "beat" is not a commentary on the act. If anything, it's just reflective of how the word is/was used
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The poll makes no remarks about whether it's a first or last resort because the idea is to understand if people use it at all. The wording isn't intended to denote whether it's used often or infrequent, merely if it is used at all. No assumptions are made (neither in the wording of the poll nor in my mind when I made the poll) about whether other tactics are used. And that's only because that wasn't the point of the poll. Not because of an image I'm trying to make about parent that do.
"And yes, I do believe that there are some kids who simply won't get it until corporal punishment."
Well, we disagree then.
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EDIT: after reading Karnythia's post, let me add that I don't consider the occasion swats to the rear end to be a big deal; I don't do it but my kids are half-hobbit and so mellow they never need it. It's whippings with a belt, the kid that leave marks all over your body and make you feel less than a dog, that I'm talking about.
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Does all of this fall under "beat" for you?
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i guess i have a loosely held theory that at young ages the parent has to establish dominance/authority over the child or something. i dunno.
but 10 year olds getting whooped is ridiculous to me.
there's just so many levels to what discipline is supposed to do...
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