I think that people tend to drastically underestimate the honesty and integrity of people in general, including themselves. I think people are naturally "good" and that social circumstances are what prevents the inherent "goodness" from coming through. And my forgetful oblivious ass is full of great examples that reveal this
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I'm a New Yorker transplanted first to Vermont and then to Ohio. People think like this everywhere, trust me. In my experience, it's not so much that we underestimate the honesty and goodness and integrity of our fellow humans, but that we don't know *which* humans are good and which ones are evil and nuts. I've had total strangers to wonderful, truly giving things for me, then come home and turned on the news to see the sweet little old man down the street was putting rat poison in the Halloween candy and torturing squirrels while wearing a chicken suit. Had my lost wallet returned, with my money still in it (!), and my Walkman stolen on the same damn day (sigh).
i heard a comedian say that there are only like 5 truly evil/crazy people in NY, but you never know which 5 and it changes every day. There's a little truth to that; I think believe the best about each other, but unfortunately we have to assume the worst so we're prepared for the actual villains...
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Ha! That's cute. Glad you liked the entry. =)
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At my mother's place we kept the door ajar almost everyday so folks could just drop in as they wanted to. And we lived in the apartment right in front of the elevator. Granted I think that's prolly very uncommon, but my mother knew EVERYone and we didn't have shit any way. lol Though I grew up in the apartment I'm in now almost as long as my mother's place I'm still not comfortable doing something like that, but I just love that sense of community we had then. I miss it.
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Actually, this reminds me of something my prof talked about in Asian American Studies. Folk were talking about the stereotype of Filipinos as gossipy, and Will said something very interesting about the way "gossip" functions in many societies as a social control-- DYKWIM? If you know folk will be talking about you, giving you the stink eye, etc., you're less likely to do wrong.
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"In GENERAL, it is the wealthy straight white man who is most likely d!ck you over soon as look at you. He's got nothing to lose..."
Pretty much.
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