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[dyvinesweetness]

In thinking about my first time and how truly shitacular it was I decided to make this poll.

Poll Now and Then

Fair warning, I'm prying in folks' business today. Leaving a reply leaves you open to me asking personal and possibly inappropriate questions (possibly screened). =D

Comments

[bellarisa]

Mine would have been perfect if I wasn't scared stiff, too many yrs of being scared I'd become a pregnant statistic. It took him 5 nights in a row to relax me enough to end my virginity (!), but it was worth it (we got married and we're still married 15 yrs later).

[dyvinesweetness]

Aaawww! =)

LOL@Diabeetus.

[toodani]

number 2 should have been checkboxes b/c i wanted to choose more than one of those. I should have waited longer for a different partner. I chose an old boyfriend i was comfy with. I also had a pencil penis so the pain wasn't bad but position-wise, it was standard. everything just should have been done differently.

[dyvinesweetness]

Yeah, I know. But I think I made check boxes once in a poll and both Laney and Mikey chose EVERY option just to get on my nerves. Since then I refuse to make check boxes. lol But yeah mine is multiples as well. I should've waited... for a different person... with more lube... or foreplay.

But I can wrap that up for myself and just say I needed better sex ed 'cause at the basis of all that is that I didn't know shit about shit. If I knew then what I know now, the rest would've fallen into place.

[moneda]

I can't fill out this poll. Is that a good or bad?

[dyvinesweetness]

I'd say it's pretty good. lol

I see you evolving a lot and I watch your perspectives change. Like I never would've guessed you'd even be open to sex outside of the context of a relationship (or maybe I misunderstood a poll response you gave before). What's your thoughts on sex now?

Very open-ended, slightly vague and extremely personal questions for $400, Alex.

[moneda]

I'd say that's accurate, that I previously wouldn't have been interested in sex outside of a relationship. Over the past few years though I've come across a lot of people, and of course a lot of varying perspectives and experiences, and me being the listener I am I've been exposed to a lot of advice, whether or not the person speaking knew I was taking it as advice. At this point I view sex the same way I view any other aspect of humanity. We need it, it's a part of our biological make-up, but we don't need to dress it up. Romanticizing our physical need for it doesn't do us any favors, I think. What that eventually does is just leave the majority of people unsatisfied, looking (and believing they have a need) for something that may or may not satisfy them; and also lends itself to people remaining unfortunately ignorant of things that will satisfy them.

[dyvinesweetness]

Interesting. So how does this perspective shape your view of how sex will affect you? Like I also saw you making statements that seemed to lean towards polyamory. Do you feel you're open to polygamy?

Tell me to shut up (or screen) at any moment. lol

[ambienceman]

I had no experience. Was nervous. Wasn't comfortable.

[ambienceman]

BTW, hot profile pic. I see your FACE.

[dyvinesweetness]

You've seen my face before, silly. AND you actually see my face better in other pics.

Thanks though.