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[dyvinesweetness]

In thinking about my first time and how truly shitacular it was I decided to make this poll.

Poll Now and Then

Fair warning, I'm prying in folks' business today. Leaving a reply leaves you open to me asking personal and possibly inappropriate questions (possibly screened). =D

Comments

[preci0us]

the only thing that could have made my experience better is if i knew more of what to expect. i had heard your first time could hurt....just didnt know how much.

[dyvinesweetness]

I find it interesting that so far everyone has rated their first time as either shitty or so-so.

[imjustice]

for #2 the thing that would have made it the most better (lol) would have been if i had been turned on more, and not as afraid & insecure.

3 in my opinion im not having sex now b/c it's been like a month or maybe more. and the reason i'm not is because i know it wouldn't be good b/c of my emotional stress. but before last month it stayed around 4.5

[bombyamom]

It was her first time too. She was very scared. I did my best to make it romantic, but the first few times hurt her too much for me to be in long enough to finish. It was very romantic and emotionally fulfilling, though, so I gave it a "3" rather than a "1."

Not having much sex

[bombyamom]

Circumstances, choice, and well, circumstances. Lots going on, just finished an "active" period of my life, and well, wanting to contemplate what it takes for me to give myself to someone while maintaining my self-respect - aka, "how quick should i give the dick?" hehe.

Having said all that, papa really needs some company, lol.

Re: Not having much sex

[dyvinesweetness]

""how quick should i give the dick?" hehe."

lol Came to a conclusion yet?

Re: Not having much sex

[bombyamom]

Good pun.

I decided it's prolly based on the person, and also seems to be directly proportional to the number of drinks that i've had. Go fig.

[ranata]

a different person and if i had waited would be both my answers but I chose if i had waited it would have been better. I wasn't even expecting him to get in when it happened. It was an older dude (just 2 years older) and while I was in high school, he tried to take it but couldn't get in there. After I graduated, he tried to do it AGAIN and this time he got in and I was like, this sucks, ain't shit good about this.

I don't have a sex life right now. I don't feel like getting to know no new person and then doing the do. I'd just go back to exes but I'm cool off that too.