Observations

[dyvinesweetness]

-When I ask a man "Have you ever been in love?" what I'm really asking is "Are you capable of being in love?" or maybe "Is there a possibility that you might fall in love with me down the road

Comments

[moneda]

can i add that, as a man, i find these actions to be.... fucked up? oh, and that's the 'technical term' too.

[dyvinesweetness]

lol No doubt.

I wanna make another post like this focusing on what we say as opposed to what we really mean.

There's slim pickins out there, ladies.

[lovelylind]

don't I know it? :o\

[psalms_of_nia]

Feelin' you on the first one for real!!!

But do we get an honest answer?

[dyvinesweetness]

"But do we get an honest answer?"

Well that's one question I think we do get an honest answer to. Like why would someone lie and say they've been in love? And why would they lie and say they haven't? Maybe if I was a male friend, he'd lie and say he hadn't. Plus I truly belive that all darkness comes to light.

Re:

[psalms_of_nia]

I am tempted to believe some guys seeing where the question may be leading may say "NO"...just because they don't want to get caught out there or seem to have a vulnerable moment.... (What they see as a vulnerable moment)
I know many men who say “No, I’ve never been in love” but I am sure at some time in their life relationships they have felt love for someone…-I’m not talking about 20 year old men, but men in their mid 30’s ….
Just curious…. But I guess we will never know, can’t read them..….stopped trying….
I need a good male friend to give me the inside scope…LOL

[dgirl1300]

"There's slim pickins out there, ladies."

Maybe not, if you look in the right place.

Psalm 91

[dyvinesweetness]

Even in the "right place" there's a small amount of good men. That's just the unfortunate truth.

[dgirl1300]

hm, I do agree to some extent. Modern society has horribly confused the roles of strong men and women today, but particularly men. The entire definition of strength has been twisted. However, most of the guys I'm friends with are strong, admirable young men. I'm well aware that there are soem incredible creeps out there, but I hate to see all men affected by the impression the creeps give. There are a lot of mean girls out there too. --; Anyway, I'd better be quiet or I'll ramble forever. :P

Psalm 77

[dyvinesweetness]

"I hate to see all men affected by the impression the creeps give."

Well speaking personally, I'm not affecting them because of it. I judge each person individually. I do know a very small amount good guys. But that's the problem. I only know a few. And out of those few, I can only see myself dating one.

"There are a lot of mean girls out there too"

Absolutely, but I don't date girls, so I'm not concerned with their grievances. But if a guy made an entry about the lack of good available women, I'm sure he'd probably be right in that assessment.

[valencia112]

Men who cheat seem to be under the impression that ALL men cheat.

That statement reminds me of something my friend Suki once said about a guy she knew who cheated/cheats on his girlfriend with some other chick. He feels like ALL guys cheat on their partner.