I ended up going to Mass by myself in the afternoon, since I was feeling better by then. I went to the neighborhood, walkable parish rather than taking the bus to our registered parish. Sometimes I feel a little guilty about not attending our geographic parish and helping it out, especially because I get the sense that the priests there are really
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This making kids sit still thing...I'm not sure about it. I think it would be a real problem for an ADHD child. I worry that it would result in the child being seen as failing if s/he manifested ADHD traits by being unable to sit still. It would certainly be necessary to avoid being punitive if the child simply couldn't sit still.
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The last paragraph you quoted, I like. :)
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Plus if my child ends up going to regular school, it will definitely be to her advantage to be able to sit quietly at her desk and at least act like she's listening, and not take after her mom in hiding a paperback book under the desk and reading it instead of paying attention. I got in trouble for that a LOT, lol.
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On the other hand, when I was four and five years old, one of my favorite "games" was to hide when my mother went shopping--inside clothes racks or displays especially. And to hear my mother work herself into a panic, yelling my name and frantically searching for me, was the most fun part of the game! I sincerely hope there is no such thing as parenting karma, because if there is, I'm in for a terror...
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The math I figure on is this.
I want to try to space my children at least 3 years apart.
I'm 25 now and having my first.
Menopause occurs around 50 but fertility usually decreases a good period before that (by late 30s in fact it's already decreased). But let's say ~20 years of fertility.
20/3 = 6.667
So, seven is about the max I see myself having without multiples, assuming financial and medical situations do not offer grave reasons for abstaining further.
Then again, who knows, in either direction. I know some couples who had a really easy time conceiving the first, but then had a really difficult time conceiving more. I'm willing to accept whatever blessings I'm given. :)
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