Mom was telling me about this auntie whom has lost her mind. She wonder why would somebody lost her mind, which reminds me of a Buddha teaching I read about. A lot of us will say it's Karma, it's cause and effect, she is paying her due but in fact it's how nature works there is not connection or relation to sin, crime or elements ( Read more... )

就像有人向人指示月亮，这人就应当依著这指示去看月亮，如果只以手的指示就以为是月亮，那么这人不仅看不到月亮，也看不到那手的指示了。为什么？因为这人以指向月亮的手为月亮，这又不仅是看不到手的指示，这也是不能识别明和暗。为什么？因为这人以手的指示为月亮的明亮性质，虽然手的指示和月亮的明与暗是孑然分明的，可是这人却不能了解这些。你也是这样。如果你以听我说法的心为你的本心，那么这个心就是与我所说的法音有分别的心，这个心自此就有了分别性。譬如客人寄宿旅店，住了又走了，不会常住不走，可是旅店的主人却不会走，因为他是掌持人。心也是这样，你的真实之心没有地方可去，哪还说什么，离开了听说的声音这心就没有了分别性？这哪里只是听到声音使这个心生出分别性，就是其它，比如能分别我的容颜的心，离开了所见容颜，也没有分别性 ( Read more... )

Defensive pessimism is a strategy used by anxious people to help them manage their anxiety so they can work productively. Defensive pessimists lower their expectations to help prepare themselves for the worst. Then, they mentally play through all the bad things that might happen. Though it sounds as if it might be depressing, defensive pessimism ( Read more... )

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"Empathy is the capacity to recognize emotions that are being experienced by another sentient or fictional being ( Read more... )

"我在你身边，我们是最好的朋友，我不在你身边，我依旧牵挂着你，我们不常联系，但一联系就会又说不完的话，此生，有你足够 ( Read more... )

Today I heard the weirdest logic of my life somebody says "I dun have money in my bank right now to repay all my loan but I have enough money to cover me for a few months if I were to be retrench or out of job. Where did my saving comes from? It came from the 10 years loan that I took ( Read more... )

The songs selection by P!nk for her new album was really "The Truth about Love ( Read more... )

These days when I am free instead of calling a friend I prefer to watch a horror movie instead ( Read more... )