If you would like the short story, the weekend was okay. We won a good game. The relationship is shit. However, there's a nuch much longer story behind why.
I think it's an excellent question. I can see now it's because my current state of mind leaves me open to irrational decisions. And I'll probably make similar bad decisions until I can get back to a stable point.
It's never good to be the one to light the match, I've lit the match in the factory several times so please know it's not just guys who do that.... yes it took a lot for me to admit that.
I know this won't help much, but if it does at all, know that the guy I was supposed to go to dinner with totally didn't call me at all after I got back from Memphis. I'm sorry you had such a bad thing happen this weekend.
I agree with julietori though... why would you want to be involved with this girl? You seem to deserve MUCH better than her, and the way she treated you!
She probably thinks I treated her pretty badly. And that she deserves much better too. And we're probably both right. And I think we both are at fault for it.
We all learn from our past choices and decisions. We also all go through things like this.
And also, after reading the below comment, I am not sure I made myself clear with my response at all. I don't see why you'd want to be with her for not only the way she treated you b/c you did not realize the magnitude of what you'd said to her due to the sentimental reasoning, but b/c if she has never followed through with things... what drive do you see in her that would make you want to be with her. Oh well...I think I may not be making sense anymore.... but regardless, I was NOT only saying it b/c of how she treated you. (that too, but not the only reason) *puts tape over mouth to shut myself up*
Ok I'll be the one to call you out, just like you called her out. What the hell were you thinking? I didn't read this post before commenting on your most recent one. Is that the comment you think was "witty"? Holy christ! Whether or not she's ever finished anything in her life is her choice (or lack thereof). Anyone would be hurt by your comment. You can't throw that kind of stuff back in a person's face. Breaking off an engagement takes guts. And it takes a long time to get over. She has every right to have been upset with you. I ask the same question "Why do you want to be with her" but not for the same reason as the other comments here. You clearly think VERY little of her so what exactly do you think dating her will accomplish? Is it that you think you can "fix" her? Make her go back to school and make all those dreams she had come to fruition? Only she can do that. I say move on, only because I can't figure out what you like about her after reading your comments about her. And if you ever are in this situation with another girl
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We have talked about her engagement a number of times before. She seemed very open and very over it or i never would have said anything. I think it had much more to do with the sentimental parts which I actually wasn't aware of like the significance of the GT football game and the timing. But regardless, you're right that I shouldn't be teasing about that kind of stuff anyway. Or really at all unless she starts it.
The whole thing with her career really isn't important to me anymore, but it was more of the absurdity of her comment that I was trying to emphasize. And you're right - I will be moving on. Not necessarily for these reasons, but that it's just a good idea at this point. I think I've proven to myself that it isn't going to work no matter what.
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I know this won't help much, but if it does at all, know that the guy I was supposed to go to dinner with totally didn't call me at all after I got back from Memphis. I'm sorry you had such a bad thing happen this weekend.
I agree with julietori though... why would you want to be involved with this girl? You seem to deserve MUCH better than her, and the way she treated you!
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And also, after reading the below comment, I am not sure I made myself clear with my response at all. I don't see why you'd want to be with her for not only the way she treated you b/c you did not realize the magnitude of what you'd said to her due to the sentimental reasoning, but b/c if she has never followed through with things... what drive do you see in her that would make you want to be with her. Oh well...I think I may not be making sense anymore.... but regardless, I was NOT only saying it b/c of how she treated you. (that too, but not the only reason) *puts tape over mouth to shut myself up*
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The whole thing with her career really isn't important to me anymore, but it was more of the absurdity of her comment that I was trying to emphasize. And you're right - I will be moving on. Not necessarily for these reasons, but that it's just a good idea at this point. I think I've proven to myself that it isn't going to work no matter what.
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