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[dreamscapemusic]

I'm seriously considering making a profile on Match.com. I have a friend who had moderate success on there and when I was telling my mom about it, she asked if I'd consider ever signing up. And at first I had the usual ohgodinternetdatingCRAZYPEOPLESKINLAMPSHADES flash reaction.

But I mean, I haven't been on a date in 2 years. Every potential

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[mybrokenlocket]

I'm terribly sorry that I can't date you. It's just that my family would never approve. Ours is a star-crossed romance, to be sure.

I have adopted a habit of not speaking for or against internet dating sites, because I have no personal experience with them. My first reaction was always similar to yours, skin lampshades and such. But then everyone I know who has used one has been really happy with it, so I'm starting to change my tune. I also don't really understand how anyone can meet people at bars/clubs- it's so noisy! You're drunk! How can there be any kind of connection? There must be a better way.

[dreamscapemusic]

I made an account last night. Emailed a few guys, but nothing back yet. And I saw a couple people I know from high school on there and they're functioning adults, so I feel a little less alone.

I think for me it was always the fact that it feels less organic. Almost like churning out relationships or something, it's too easy. Though I'm definitely changing my thoughts now. It's still a little nervewracking, even when you know they're single and looking. And you're right, it's so hard to meet someone in a bar or club. I was always like, "He'll come along, I'll meet him at the bookstore or something. Like in the movies." But nope, no luck with that so far.

Worst case is I spent 60 bucks and got a few awkward emails.

[mybrokenlocket]

I get what you mean about it feeling less organic. But I feel like the pay-off in the opposite direction is total honesty. If someone is on the site, they're looking for a date or a relationship. No guessing games.

After I was all "good for you!" yesterday, there was a story on the news about a dude who scammed a bunch of ladies through online dating. I know you're pretty good at picking out the scams from your Craigslist adventures, but just don't buy anyone you meet any expensive gifts or offer to pay his medical bills, 'kay?

[dreamscapemusic]

Aw shit. Maybe I can get the hospital to refund my money. And the private jet store.