Looking back at my LiveJournal feed, I realize that many things have not been said here. I promised a full rundown of my marriage two years ago, that didn't happen
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(BTW, hi, it's Brody!) Glad you're getting your mojo back! It does take a little while, doesn't it?
I myself got married too early (married my high school sweetheart, ha ha), and it didn't last too long once we ACTUALLY got married. For various reasons. But yeah, it taught me a LOT about what I wanted and didn't want out of a relationship, and I think I'm the better for getting it out of the way early.
I guess everything in life ends up as a learning experience whether we want it to or not. Hugs to you!
BTDT, the t-shirt is so old it's a cleaning rag now. and fwiw, life has the chance to be SO much better and more rewarding once you, as you say, have that experience under your belt and have learned better.
Sorry you had to go thru it, welcome to the other side of things.
It's rather surprising, but I'm actually pretty much okay.
...not surprising at all, actually. *waves and smiles*
"what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger," right? (i mean hell: at this point, *i'll* be bloody immortal by the time i leave CA. maybe this was just your entry into the 'let's grab a pint 500 years in the postapocalyptic future' club. :)
"For better or worse, I have the experience of an unhealthy marriage under my belt and I've learned things I will never put up with again. This goes for how I behave, and how I am treated."
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Glad you're getting your mojo back! It does take a little while, doesn't it?
I myself got married too early (married my high school sweetheart, ha ha), and it didn't last too long once we ACTUALLY got married. For various reasons. But yeah, it taught me a LOT about what I wanted and didn't want out of a relationship, and I think I'm the better for getting it out of the way early.
I guess everything in life ends up as a learning experience whether we want it to or not. Hugs to you!
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Glad you're feeling better.
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BTDT, the t-shirt is so old it's a cleaning rag now.
and fwiw, life has the chance to be SO much better and more rewarding once you, as you say, have that experience under your belt and have learned better.
Sorry you had to go thru it, welcome to the other side of things.
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...not surprising at all, actually. *waves and smiles*
"what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger," right? (i mean hell: at this point, *i'll* be bloody immortal by the time i leave CA. maybe this was just your entry into the 'let's grab a pint 500 years in the postapocalyptic future' club. :)
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"For better or worse, I have the experience of an unhealthy marriage under my belt and I've learned things I will never put up with again. This goes for how I behave, and how I am treated."
AMEN! And welcome to the saucy divorcee club.
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