Wow, long time since I posted here, I really should start using this again, if only as a tool to vent my frustrations.Not really sure anyone reads it anymore anyway
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I think the letter is a great idea. I'm sorry to hear that Lilianah DID catch on to what was saying, but I have to say it's a testament to what an amazing little girl she is that she has handled those things SO WELL!! Proof of your amazing Mummy skills!!
I know "new wife" is all very exciting and it's a new chapter in life, but Lilianah came first, and he needs to remember that he made the commitment to raise her when he agreed to having the baby. Not only that, but he has continued to make the effort to be in her life, and that is still his choice in the end. To whinge and gripe about it now is a cop out and utterly despicable!
Good Luck with your letter, take your time in writing it so you get everything you want to say in it! *hugs* Love you!
*blinks That is terrible. I cannot believe someone would say that at a wedding in front of people & especially in front of the child in question. Having said that, you have done a great job in raising such a wonderful & mature girl :) I think a letter is a great idea, it will be easier to express how you feel through a letter rather than face to face. Sometimes face to face isn't a great idea, as tempers may flare? *hugs
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I'm sorry to hear that Lilianah DID catch on to what was saying, but I have to say it's a testament to what an amazing little girl she is that she has handled those things SO WELL!! Proof of your amazing Mummy skills!!
I know "new wife" is all very exciting and it's a new chapter in life, but Lilianah came first, and he needs to remember that he made the commitment to raise her when he agreed to having the baby. Not only that, but he has continued to make the effort to be in her life, and that is still his choice in the end. To whinge and gripe about it now is a cop out and utterly despicable!
Good Luck with your letter, take your time in writing it so you get everything you want to say in it!
*hugs*
Love you!
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That is terrible. I cannot believe someone would say that at a wedding in front of people & especially in front of the child in question. Having said that, you have done a great job in raising such a wonderful & mature girl :)
I think a letter is a great idea, it will be easier to express how you feel through a letter rather than face to face. Sometimes face to face isn't a great idea, as tempers may flare?
*hugs
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