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devifemme

Submission

Jan 28, 2011 08:42

Longtime readers will possibly recall my fascination with girls in slave relationships. I have 7-8 good friends on LJ, mostly with male masters. Despite being strictly a girl's girl, these submissives intrigue me -- though I'd NEVER consider intimately serving a man ( Read more... )

dommes, slaves, spanking, mistress, panties

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superfan1 January 28 2011, 12:02:53 UTC

I would love to play mistress someday. Teehee. :D

devifemme January 28 2011, 16:43:17 UTC

Oh, darling girl, I'd love for you to do that.

As I wrote here, sensitive dommes are hard to find -- or should I clarify, girl-loving dommes (much as I'm intrigued by the classic man-dominating dungeon-dwelling version so beloved of the lurid back pages of "alternate" newspapers)?

How would your girlfriend feel about that?

Kisses,
J

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devifemme January 28 2011, 16:24:37 UTC

Hey, please, no problem -- you're posting just enough to be able to get to know each other! To be friends, as much as this new medium permits (or, in good moments, encourages ( ... )

br0ken_dolly January 28 2011, 17:32:32 UTC

It makes me a little sad your relationship is more vanilla now. How do you feel about it? Is anything "missing"?

everythingnnot January 28 2011, 23:02:17 UTC

As you well know from reading my blog I am completely fascinated by the Dom(me)/sub relationship having written many pieces concerning such. I have never been a sub my personality being to abrupt and bossy to even consider it. I have been a domme. I think that the cuddling and care of a sub after taking them to a subspace is just as important as any punishment that might be administered as it lets the sub know that they are loved and no matter what they might have been punished for they are not "bad". I believe any Master or Mistress who doesn't do this important step is missing something for themselves as well as their sub...now that is not to say that every sub needs this but it has been my experience that most of them do. As long as the sub know they are "good" then the relationship is a good one imho.

leathersub January 29 2011, 06:10:53 UTC

Hmm. See for me, punishment doesn't finish with cuddling and after care. Punishment is punishment. Heavy play has cuddling and after care. Punishment does not. Punishment is to correct a behaviour - and trust me, it works. There will be talk about it afterwards, how I'm feeling (and how my ass is feeling after a caning) but it's not fun and giggles. It's not sexual, it's just .....well, punishment!

devifemme January 30 2011, 07:53:44 UTC

Hmmm, very intriguing -- this distinction between "heavy play" and punishment. Coincidentally, I have another LJ friend who's into slavery -- and she is actively trying to separate her love of pain (proper masochism) from "suffering" from the pain her Master inflicts -- and cease the former (that is, stop LIKING it ( ... )